It is not advisable to date when unemployed, according to Pastor Bolaji Idowu.
He emphasizes how having unstable finances might affect one’s capacity to make wise partner selections.
Personal choices may be limited by unemployment, resulting in partnerships that are more motivated by necessity than genuine compatibility.
The main pastor of Harvesters International Christian Center (HICC), Pastor Bolaji Idowu, has cautioned against dating while unemployed.
He underlined that not being financially independent might impair judgment and affect what people find attractive in a partner. Pastor Idowu claims that being unemployed restricts one’s options and might result in partnerships that are more motivated by need than by true compatibility.
He added that after finding a job and beginning to make money, people frequently realize that their prior relationships were more influenced by financial difficulties than genuine connection.
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What he said
“Avoid dating when unemployed. Some relationships are appealing not because they are beautiful, but rather because you are poor. You’ll be shocked to learn that you shouldn’t have fell in love with certain people once you have your own money. It was induced by hunger, not by love. Never bargain while hungry because you will end up with a lousy bargain. Crumbs mentality: you can easily be satisfied by little things when you’re poor. The tendency to accept less is a symptom of the “crumbs mentality.” Shift in your mindset. I’m arguing that you should think broadly. When I hear the things that people used to talk about, I think, “If I could just go to America.” What makes visiting America a goal?
View a few comments below:
@drexxcater1: “Don’t give offerings or pay tithes when you’re also unemployed 🤝”
@_shotbytwitwi: “Money na water lenu pastor 😂😂😂”
@vado2023: “You can date as many people as you want when you have a job.”
“Just different opinions every time,” said @Lord_karmacruz.
@Akomandaniels: “When you’re poor, little things make you happy” 🔥🔥
