“I Was Losing My Touch of Controversy,” Blessing CEO Says After Breakup with IVD
Contentious Following her announcement that she was ending her relationship with IVD, the CEO of Blessing, a Nigerian relationship specialist, stepped out.
Many internet users were taken aback by the news that was made earlier on Instagram.
The self-described relationship expert, however, broke her silence in the face of uproar and said that she had posted about her engagement cancelation in order to test her “touch of controversy.”
“My sense of controversy was fading. decided to give it another test. The magic was still with me. Don’t be Blessingceo once more. For life, boo boo. They absolutely adore bad news. “Wedding loading,” she asserted.
Reality actress Phyna has been under fire from the CEO of Blessing for her altercation with campaigner VeryDarkMan (VDM).
According to reports, the CEO of Blessing expressed sympathy for Phyna’s death in a video that was uploaded on Sunday. However, she criticized her handling of her disagreement with VDM, claiming that it demonstrated ingratitude despite his prior support.
She maintained that rather than criticizing VDM and siding with his opponent, Izzy Ogbeide, Phyna could have looked to other activists or platforms.
The CEO of Blessing also criticized the Big Brother Naija winner for permitting her sister’s medical condition to be utilized as material for the internet, emphasizing that activists are people and should be respected.
She stated that it was inconsistent and preventable for Phyna to criticize VDM while yet anticipating his help.
I’m sad to hear about your sister’s passing, Phyna, but I need you to go get some lessons. Refrain from letting your wrath control you. Be careful because the devil is only waiting for a small chance to nail you to the wall, so keep your mouth shut, especially in stressful situations. This is a matter of mutual appreciation, not of you and VeryDarMan. Although I am not a fan of VDM, believe me when I say that what you did and said will work against you regardless of how much support you receive. And I’m going to take this chance to implore you to ignore someone if you think they’re too contentious.
When you knew you didn’t want to employ VDM, you could have used Brekete, Harrison, or Daddy Freeze. You went to Izzy Ogbeide and said a number of things in an attempt to enrage VDM. Izzy fought VDM by using you as bait.
“They used the case of your sister to create content. Activists are also people. Being around ungrateful individuals drains your energy. Having gratitude makes you feel good about yourself. Simply remain silent if someone has shown you kindness in the past, even if they have offended you.